Journey To The Centre Of The Heart by Aneela Shad

Journey Into The Heart

Journey Into The Heart

Let me take you to such a domain

Where prevails no sorrow or grief

And love carries the day

Where goddess of the dawn gives birth to rays of hope

Where pitch darkness washes away by moonlight

Where you may encounter sunshine or some shadows

But the long journey keeps giving a wake-up call!

And no matter how far your vision takes you

The sky keeps waving at liberty

Where colourful birds bring aspirations

Where flower buds bloom and laugh in dreams

Where a pleasant evening dissolves itself in peace

It is such a sphere of dreams

Where exists only love and love only

Let’s lose ourselves in such a world

Where there is no remorse and no moans

Where no one squabbles

And no one is a stranger

Where holding hands is an order

Hugs are essential

Tears are treasure

Walking together

To unfold – to discover!

I am ready if you are….

By Aneela Shad

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Fixed Mindset Verses The Growth Mindset

The Growth Mindset by Carol Dweck

Growth Mindset Quote by Carol Dweck

Growth Mindset Quote by Carol Dweck

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According to one of the leading researchers in the field of the Growth Mindset, Carol Dweck:

“People believe … their talents and abilities can be developed through passion, education, and persistence. For them it’s about a commitment to learning- taking informed risks and learning from the results, surrounding yourself with people who will change challenge you to grow, looking frankly at your deficiencies and seeking to remedy them.”

There are many benefits to having the growth mindset. Below is a chart illustrating the vast difference between the fixed mindset and the growth mindset.

Difference Between Fixed and Growth Mindsets

Difference Between Fixed and Growth Mindsets

Fixed Mindset people believe that intelligence cannot be developed and with their focus applied to appearances they have a tendency to do the following:

  1. They avoid challenges – By doing this they in effect lose out on many varying opportunities to grow and learn from their varied experiences. They basically fear change.
  2. As a consequence of their deep embedded belief this type of mentality gives up easily. Again this is an indication of their lack of belief and to challenge themselves further to set goals to achieve more.
  3. The fixed mindset individual also views effort as a waste of time. They believe that they could be doing something more useful than trying to improve themselves so choose to remain still and fight change rather than allowing things to happen around them because they believe they are not capable of achieving a “better self”.
  4. When these types of people ignore criticism, they use defence mechanisms to blockade a valuable set of lessons which could if used constructively help them to vastly improve their lifestyle in every aspect.
  5. When these types of people view the success of others around them, instead of feeling happy for others and being inspired, instead they feel threatened. They can quite easily use the success of other people as a way to improve their own failings but choose not to do so.

So, with this information, the growth mind-set is indeed something to strive for. If you believe in yourself, you can achieve so much more and each set back can be viewed as a challenge, an obstacle to overcome which will make you stronger.

Life is about growth and change and not stagnation. So choose to grow with the changes in your life and embrace the growth of your mind by accepting that you do indeed possess the ability to cultivate a growth mindset. Use it wisely.

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Putting Your Life On Hold For Someone Else

That’s right we have all done it! Just admit it! Many of us, and that is a vast majority of women have put their lives on hold for something or other, usually a person dare I say. We do it because we want to be a saint or a saviour or something more that is beyond our own comprehension.

Time Is Precious

Time Is Precious so Don’t Waste It On Someone Else

To Please Or Not To Please A Spouse

I personally put my life on hold to please my spouse for years. I always used to think and plan according to when my partner and I would have the time to be happy – that day of course never came. Firstly, we were dreadfully unhappy in each other’s company so we would do other things to keep so busy so as not to bump into each other even as an accident.

Secondly, when we did have the time for each other, we realised how unhappy we really were and eventually separated and went our own ways. He found happiness with someone else while I carried on waiting thinking he might come back. It took quite a while for me to my senses and realised that not only had I wasted time in a bad marriage but I further wasted time waiting for him to come home after the marriage had quite evidently broken down.

One thing I have learnt for sure and that is – you will NEVER and I repeat NEVER get back that wasted time you neatly put on hold for the sake of someone else! I refuse to waste any more of my precious time for the sake of anybody now. I live my life by doing the things that give me pleasure while at the same time remaining responsible in the way I live my life.

So get up, pick up the remote control and un-pause yourself by pressing the play button. What exactly are you waiting for? Get on with it! If you want to achieve something in your life then the only thing to do is to go and get it in a way that is not harmful to you or other people. Take action after careful thought about the direction you wish to move towards.

Stop wasting whatever precious time you have left. Set a time limit and go for it No ifs buts, should etc. What do you want? What is standing in your way? If you are making excuses – you are the obstacle – so kindly remove your negative objections and get on with it! Free yourself of the emotional chains that bind you.

It is one thing to wait patiently, but when someone is walking all over you then put an end to it straight away! Remember that it is you who is allowing that person to walk all over you. You will know that you have done the right thing because the feeling will be right. Your heart tells it to you just right so listen up and do this thing right. So get up and fight if you need your light.

Otherwise sit right back down and keep yourself on pause or hold or whatever you want it to be at a snail’s pace maybe. Make excuses because everything will be alright in the end because when you look back many years to come all you will be thinking about is the wasted time and what you could have done but of course it will be too late then a life has been undone!

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